GIRLS!

On my blog, you see very random things. This is because I am a very random person! Well for this post, I've decided on one topic to talk to you about-- Girls, gossip, drama, and finding yourself. Girls typically have an urge to gossip, and start drama. It's natural! But don't let it get so far to where you start losing your friends. I am a middle school girl, and I know all of us girls want close friends, and to be excepted. Last year was very dramatic, and girls were mean. (If you went to our school last year, you know what I am talking about.) It's dumb! GIRLS-- BE NICE! Think about if we all got along, didn't gossip like we do, and spread lies. We could all have many close friends, and have someone there for us, which we all want. We all want to be loved!

One thing that is on my mind, that I can't stress enough, is BE YOURSELF! I know way too many girls who want to be exactly like the other girls at school, and the beautiful models in magazines. Find your own style, and own it! I think the problem we have as teenage girls is that we are so insecure with ourselves, that we tear down other girls and feel we have to be something that we are not. So let me tell you, stop being a "copy cat", and find yourself! People will love you for you, and love your friends for who they are. Don't feel like you have to be exactly like somebody else in order to be excepted. Let's stop being so jealous of each other!

Drama- Drama is stupid. As teenagers, we have to realize this is the fun years of our lives! We get to have lots of friends, and in a couple years we get to drive! Just think! College is right around the corner! Life is to be enjoyed, so let's not ruin it by starting stupid drama for no reason at all! Girls love drama, I know, but it's horrible, and messes up friendships and relationships! Let's be happy! So today, be the bigger person, go STOP THE DRAMA, give someone a hug, and smile! :)